goodreadss:

“Don’t criticize what you can’t understand.”

—

tbhalone:

“You never get over it. But you get to where it doesn’t bother you so much.”

— The Virgin Suicides by Jeffrey Eugenides   (via heruin)

afronerdism:

platinum-iridium:

afronerdism:

afronerdism:

The fact that so few of you can conceptualize love completely independent of sex is why you keep ending up in dissatisfying relationships.

To expand on this a little, a lot of you seem to inherently respond to romance with sex. So everytime you see a partner do something romantic your response is “I can’t wait to get on my knees!” Instead of being in that moment and responding to love with love. A lot of you can’t conceptualize romance for the sake of pure romance; instead when something romantic happens you start talking about how much you can’t wait to buss’ it open. Conversely, a lot of you have learned to only perform romantic gestures with the expectation that your partner will buss’ it open. Y’all just don’t seem to be able to understand what a healthy relationship looks like because you can’t separate sex from it.

love and sex should not be transactional!

I like that….. “love and sex should not be transactional”

avara-avara:

falling asleep to rain is great, but waking up to rain, *chefs kiss* fantastic

inritum:

reblog and make a wish!


this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

honigimohr:

im permanently emotionally damaged but it’s chill, I’m chill

l4422l:

It’s weird when you realize the person you once told everything to now has no idea what’s going on in your life

writingsforwinter:

it’s safe to assume that at any given moment i want to go back to bed